you criticize someone; First walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when they finally hear about it.. you'll be a mile away.... and you'll have their shoes!
 
On "YouTube"; 'Judge Judy' addressing a young brunette, female plaintiff; Who had a 'weak case.' "This case isn't 'rocket-science'; Do you know what I mean, by that? -- 'brunette plantiff': "The research, of outer-space, with rockets?" --