are there any people who get emotional after a loss and how do you deal/come to terms with it???

Appreciate the priviege of having good memories.

privilege

 
A loss of what exactly?
 
.. a chess game ?
.. a pet ?
.. a family member ?
.. your keys ?
.. a sense of decency?
.. a sense of proportion ?
.. control of your bodily functions ?
 

good one spud

control of bodily functions silly, umm let me see, your right, im out of it, i meant a chess game, sometime I get really bitter, like i dont deserve to lose. I can like buy chinese food, have a beer, pound my fists, have a nervous breakdown etc Its sort of like there are a lot of solutions to having a hangover, in the same way I thought there are going to be a lot of solutions to having a CHESS LOSS.

Acceptance is where it’s at. Accept people, places and things just as they are and get on with your life. Even if they are sometimes unacceptable.
 
Grandpa13

Thanks Grandpa im afraid this is going to be the last word on a loss, because if I think for a second, by stressing over a loss, the only person im hurting is myself, thats it, final equation.